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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • Is it how they talk on those apps? Sure.

    Is it how a lot of men just talk outright? Yeah, and it’s insane. The messages my partner (cis) and I (trans) have gotten on Instagram even are so out of pocket.

    I’ll gladly accept the lack of understanding of boundaries, because it makes the red flags obvious from the start.

    I’ll add that it’s very, very nice to see a rational, “respectful” reaction to being told they are trans though. Too many men who jump to invalidating gender and outright transphobia out there. Especially the ones who are only afraid of being seen as gay.









  • Oh hey that was me for over 15 years!

    I’m transfem now and happier than I’ve ever been.

    With all of that being said, feel things out. Gender isn’t a race to a goal, it’s who you are and what that means for you. It took 3 separate personality crises before working through the fear and anxiety of it all. Even if you’re just cis, what’s important is that you get to be yourself.