Same here. I’m not aware of a term for it, but I’ve always been a bit self-conscious about the fact that I don’t know what my inner monologue sounds like. I’ve tried giving it a voice, and it never sticks.
Well the gay men haven’t done anything to deserve my ire so far, so you’re right on this one.
🙋🏽♂️
The men are not okay.
Yeah, I even felt weird using the word spectrum. I’m visualizing a 3-dimensional gradient where each individual point in space reflects a unique sexuality. It’s about as unique to you as your fingerprint. It’s insane to me that we had such black and white categories for so much of our history.
Sexuality is a spectrum. Gay is more of a vibe than a science.
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