Or maybe whether you paint your fingernails or not is an issue because you make it an issue. You. Not the cosmos, the creator or society. You.
Which, yes, doesn’t make it any less of an issue. But, again. Perspective.
Because, and I think I can say this objectively: fingernail polish is very very small.
I think that you are rendering your personal drama in inflated terms. A tempest in your own personal philosophical teapot. It is large and important because it’s up in your face. An ant on your nose that you mistake for Godzilla. A trick of perspective.
We’re talking about the realness of reality here.
This gender stuff seems rather petty, comparatively.
Reality is a dream. Truth is falsehood. A wizard tried to wake us up. The Matrix has you!!!
No wait. Penis.
So you are the source of the issue. But you are not in control of yourself.